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Psy Shikha Kaushik · Writer · Psychologist

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The Quiet Exhaustion of Always Being 'Fine'

There is a particular kind of tiredness that comes not from doing too much, but from feeling too much while pretending you're not. We've all learned to say "I'm fine" — but what does it cost us to keep saying it, and what would happen if we stopped?

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🧠 Mental Health

Mental Health

When Healing Doesn't Look Like Progress

We expect healing to be linear — a steady improvement toward a better self. But real healing is messier, slower, and far more human. Sometimes going backward is how you finally move forward.

Mental Health

The Difference Between Loneliness and Solitude

They look similar from the outside. But the inner experience could not be more different. Understanding the distinction is the first step to navigating both with intention rather than avoidance.

Mental Health

Anxiety Is Not the Enemy

We spend so much energy fighting anxiety that we miss what it's actually trying to tell us. What if the goal isn't to eliminate it — but to understand it well enough that it stops running the show?

Mental Health

What No One Tells You About Grief

Grief is not a problem to solve or a phase to pass through. It is an ongoing relationship with loss — one that changes shape but rarely disappears. Here is what that actually looks like.

Mental Health

Rest Is Not a Reward

We have built a culture that treats rest as something earned — a prize for sufficient productivity. This piece challenges that belief and asks what might change if we treated rest as a right instead.

Mental Health

On Asking for Help Without Feeling Like a Burden

The story many of us tell ourselves is that needing help means we are too much. This piece is a quiet reframe — because the ability to ask for help is not weakness. It is one of the most courageous things a person can do.

👩 Women Empowerment

Women Empowerment

On Being Ambitious and Still Feeling Not Enough

Ambition is not the absence of self-doubt. Many of the most driven women carry both enormous capability and a persistent inner voice that says it's still not enough. This is about that voice — and what to do with it.

Women Empowerment

Reclaiming 'Sensitive' as a Strength

We were taught that sensitivity was a liability — too emotional, too much. But sensitivity is attunement. It is the capacity to feel deeply, notice subtly, and respond with care. It is, in fact, one of the most powerful things a person can be.

Women Empowerment

The Psychology of People-Pleasing

It begins early — the learning that to be loved, you must first be agreeable. This piece looks at the roots of people-pleasing, why it runs so deep in women particularly, and what it takes to gently unlearn it.

Women Empowerment

Financial Independence Is an Emotional Journey Too

The numbers matter. But behind every financial decision is a story — about worth, safety, and what we were taught to believe we deserve. True financial independence begins long before the bank account changes.

Women Empowerment

When Strength Becomes Its Own Prison

There is a kind of woman who is celebrated for her strength — and quietly exhausted by the weight of it. What happens when the armour you built to protect yourself starts to keep people out who might actually help?

Women Empowerment

Boundaries Are an Act of Love

We have been taught to see boundaries as walls — as rejection, as coldness. But a boundary is not a refusal of love. It is a condition of it. This piece reframes what it means to say no with care and conviction.

🔍 Psychology & Identity

Psychology & Identity

Why We Repeat Patterns We Know Are Hurting Us

If you've ever found yourself stuck in a pattern you could see clearly but couldn't stop — this piece is for you. Understanding why we repeat isn't about blame. It's about finally having a map out.

Psychology & Identity

The Self You Present and the Self You Are

We all perform versions of ourselves. The question is not whether we do it, but how far the gap has grown — between who you show the world and who you are in the quiet moments when no one is watching.

Psychology & Identity

What Childhood Teaches Us About Trust

The way we learned to trust — or not trust — in childhood writes the first draft of every relationship we will have as adults. Understanding that draft is one of the most freeing things you can do for yourself.

Psychology & Identity

On Changing and Still Recognising Yourself

Growth can feel disorienting — like you're losing something even as you gain something. This piece is for anyone who has found themselves in the middle of becoming and wasn't sure they still recognised who they were.

Psychology & Identity

The Stories We Tell About Ourselves

We are all the protagonists of a story we're constantly narrating. The trouble is — most of us inherited the first few chapters and never questioned whether they still fit. This piece is about rewriting those chapters.

Psychology & Identity

What It Means to Actually Know Yourself

Self-awareness is not a destination — it's a practice. And most of us are far less acquainted with ourselves than we think. This is a gentle, honest look at what self-knowledge actually requires.

"Each article here was written because something needed to be said — not performed, not packaged, just honestly put into words."

— Psy Shikha Kaushik

All Articles

The Quiet Exhaustion of Always Being 'Fine'

When Healing Doesn't Look Like Progress

The Difference Between Loneliness and Solitude

Anxiety Is Not the Enemy

What No One Tells You About Grief

Rest Is Not a Reward

On Asking for Help Without Feeling Like a Burden

On Being Ambitious and Still Feeling Not Enough

Reclaiming 'Sensitive' as a Strength

The Psychology of People-Pleasing

Financial Independence Is an Emotional Journey Too

When Strength Becomes Its Own Prison

Boundaries Are an Act of Love

Why We Repeat Patterns We Know Are Hurting Us

The Self You Present and the Self You Are

What Childhood Teaches Us About Trust

On Changing and Still Recognising Yourself

The Stories We Tell About Ourselves

What It Means to Actually Know Yourself

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